Whoa it has taken me nearly 2 months to even post my first blog...maybe that is a sign that this might not be so easy to keep up with, but I am hoping I do.
First, I wanted to start a blog so I can remember everything sweet little Mason Phillip does. He is growing up so fast that when I blink my eyes he does a new "trick". Also, if the Lord blesses us with another child one day, maybe I can look back at my blogs and remember what to do, ha ha...like I will have time to read old blogs...a girl can dream right?
The first three months FLEW by!
Month 0-1: Sleepless nights, hormonal imbalances, overwhelmed feelings, and recovering from a c-section pretty much describe my first month as a new mother. While I am beyond thankful for our sweet little boy, it was a HUGE adjustment! I was not used to staying at home all day, not getting sleep, not having independence, etc. Also, poor little Mason has reflux, so he was quite fussy pretty much always! My mom helped out for two weeks which was amazing, and thankfully Shawn did everything he could to help me out with Mason and the house. I honestly just try to block the first month out...if I did remember every detail, I probably would not want to go through it again, but now I know that God let's mothers forget just how hard it is at first, or else we would all be only children!
Month 1-2: Still adjusting to life with a new born. From the beginning our little boy has been SO alert. At week 6 he started to smile. The first smile let me know that everything hard had been worth it! Still not sleeping well really, still super fussy! I breast fed for the first 5 weeks of his life...and then I had to quit for several reasons. I still regret it, but in the end I think it was better for both of us. He was put on this SUPER stinky formula- Alimentum. Think rotted salty potatoes smell! Ewww- poor boy. It is one of the most broken down formulas out there. The dr. recommended that we use this due to his allergies and bad reflux. Not much improvement wtih fussiness, but the doctor said he would grow out of his reflux and colic. Let's just say this month he didn't! I also started going back to work when he was 8 weeks old. I hated leaving him at daycare, but his teachers said that he did really well and that he enjoyed looking at the other little babies. We have definitely discovered that he likes to be entertained...he doesn't really like to just sit and do nothing.
Month 2-3: Mason is still doing well at daycare. He had issues gaining weight, probably from his reflux. He gradually has been gaining weight, but this month he started to fuss while we fed him, usually it was just after. SO frustrating. He started taking prevacid in month 2, but I really don't know how much it helped. This month he started cooing up a storm. My favorite thing to do was to come home and sit him on my lap and let him "tell" me what happened during the day at daycare. He LOVES being outside! He also started to really notice his big brother Rovie. No matter how bad he felt, if we took him outside, he would immediately calm down. Praise the Lord for outside. I can't really remember much else, everything runs together when a person is so busy!
Month 3-4: What a doll this boy is! He got baptized in September, and I promise that was his first day to not be really fussy! Maybe it was because he got held the entire day or maybe it was because he was now Baptized, but it was amazing...him not fussy- it does exist!!!! His personality has really started to develop! He really laughs out loud now...we do anything to make him laugh. His favorite thing is for his mommy and daddy to rap to him. Ha ha- can you picture me and Shawn rapping to him? As mentioned before, he loves being entertained and loves watching everything we do. Still doing really well at daycare! We recently switched him to soy formula. The dr. didn't want us to, but we heard it worked really well for another baby, so we gave it a shot. The verdict is stil out, but so far so good. He doesn't push away his bottles (probably becasuse he doesn't have to eat rotted potato smelling milk) and daycare said he doesn't fuss as much. I am hoping this is the answser to his upset tummy! We shall see. But we are definitely having some good days now! Oh and last night he started to vibrate his lips and make sound (we do this to make him laugh and he now he figured it out on his own)! It is BEYOND cute! He also LOVES bath time- I am pretty sure it's his favorite time of the day. He likes to kick the water and splish splash!
I just have to say we love this little boy with all of our heart. He has been the biggest blessing in our life by a million. While having a baby has been a trillion times harder than college, the cpa exam, etc etc, it has been worth every second!!!!! He will be four months old in 5 days... I can't believe it!!!!!
Please share your comments or suggestions if you have any, I would love to hear from you!!